I am 17, had been with this guy on and off for almost a year until I found out he had cheated on me when we had gotten into a fight one night. He denied and denied it until I found out the truth in which I didn't talk to him for a short period of time.
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I found out I have herpes about a week ago. I was in denial when I came up with the sores. I thought I cut myself down there and that was all. I am married with two kids and this is the first outbreak.
About 8-9 years ago I had unprotected sex with 2 guys. I did not see any sores on the guys so I figured I was OK. Little did I know anyone could carry the virus w/o symptoms. I never thought that I could have this in my body for that many years and not know it.
When I told my husband, he was upset and thought I cheated. He has been to the doctor and waiting on his results. He is still upset and will not do oral sex ever again. I feel disgusting and nasty. I have looked in to natural detox. I do not want to suppress this.
If detox doesn't work then I will determine the signs before an outbreak to control them. I am hopeful for our sex life to get normal again.