Did She Really Love Me?
I was in a serious long term relationship with a girl. We had planned to marry and live together as well. We were in a long distance relationship for the past 2 years. I’m safe to say that I have never cheated on her, not even once.
One day I went to the doctor and he misdiagnosed me with genital herpes which I told my girlfriend about, thinking that I really have it. Within 3 days of this depressing news she decided to leave me in the most difficult time of my life. What’s worse was that, not only did she withheld offering me support, she also cut off all communication between us- saying good bye only through emails and phone calls.
After this I went for more blood tests and to a different doctor who confirmed I was misdiagnosed. Even the blood test came back negative again. This I came to know after few days of her breaking up with me so I am confident that I didn't have herpes. Somehow I got in contact with this girl again but she didn't want to continue any relationship with me anymore.
If the reason for our break up was genital herpes, it was a valid reason for her to go away from me but since I don’t have this condition she should have continued with me. If I wanted, I could have told her that I don’t have herpes because even before being misdiagnosed I had 2 negative blood test reports.
However, I was very honest with her about everything. I am not angry with the reason that she left me since I did thought I had herpes, but I am angry because she doesn't want to continue with me even now that it is clear that I don’t really have herpes.
My question is: do you guys think this girl really loved me?